The Sexualization of Early Childhood

I believe that sexualization is on a high in today’s society. With the vast promotion of social media and technology, children of all ages are introduced to the overly sexualizing that we see happening in the world around us. It’s sad that children are introduced to such provocative and inappropriate messages that make them think that boys/girls should look a certain way to be happy and appreciated by others.

Three examples I can share to illustrate the exposure of young children in a highly sexualized environment would be the following:

1.       Girls in pretend and play center wanting the long, blonde hair because they think it makes them look prettier.

2.       Toys that are sold to boys/ girls send messages about what shows femininity or masculinity. Barbie dolls and Bratz dolls with makeup and provocative clothing on.  Wresting figurines that show guys ripped with muscles.

3.       Little girls wanting to walk in mommies’ heels, put on make-up, and a wig to look prettier. I have seen this on the show “Toddlers and Tiara’s.” Were toddler girls are put in pageants and are covered in makeup, heels, short dresses, and wearing tons of hair pieces.

With young children being exposed to things such as these examples provided, they are subject to learn messages of what defines ‘femininity’ or ‘masculinity’ in our society. They are also taught that these types of images are what portrays what it means to be “pretty,” beautiful,” “tough”, or “a ladies man.” Being aware of these issues as a professional means that I need to provide opportunities for children to become happy with whom they are. Find ways through curriculum, songs, books, etc. to teach children that it’s okay to be you and its okay to be me. Learning how to appreciate differences amongst people, as well as, using teaching methods of persona dolls, songs, books, etc can help with concept of positive self-images.